We live in Amagansett and have 2 kids, 4 and almost 2. Our nanny who worked with us for the past 2 years has to move, so we are looking for a full time nanny!
Our kids go to pre school. One goes 9-2 and other 9-12 and then into his nap. Would need help in the morning, then ability to have a break and then in the afternoon. My wife is stay at home mom, so most days you will not be with the kids only on your own.