I have a 14 month old, Audrey, and a 3 year old Anthony Jr who is potty training but pretty much good with it. I have Jr every other month, Due to co-parenting. My daughter takes two naps, my son one. they get along sometimes, but Jr doesn’t like to share toys. I have 4 cats, but they usually hide, and 3 dogs. It’s a full house. During the day the dogs can hang outside, especially if you aren’t comfortable with dogs.
I would just need someone to watch my children till my dad gets home to take over at 4:30 when my husband leaves at 1:30.
I live in Tacoma, in a smallish house. 1:30-4:30 is pretty set, the latest till 5.