Hello, I have two children. My seven year-old daughter is autistic, but she is very high functioning and can speak and can use the bathroom by herself and most of the time is very mellow and very calm. She currently receives four different therapies a week so she’s doing good and from an outsider looking in she seems like a Neurotypical child. My other child is four years old he has ADHD most of the time he is also well behaved he’s just very hyper active and he can speak as well and can use the bathroom by himself as well. He usually eats better than she does. She is a bit more picky, but they both are very high functioning and receive multiple therapies a week so they shouldn’t give you guys too much issues.